Younger children sharing pictures or videos online

Younger children sharing pictures or videos online

If you are worried about a photo or video your child has shared online, there is plenty you can do to reduce the risks and make sure they stay safe.

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Increasingly, young children are using phones and tablets to create photos and videos and share them online. Whilst this can be fun, sharing images can also be risky.

It’s important your child understands what’s ok to share and what they should discuss with you first.

What are the risks?

● Once an image has been shared, you can never be sure who has seen it, saved it or shared it.

● Personal or embarrassing pictures in the wrong hands can lead to bullying.

● Knowing that others have seen embarrassing images can cause stress and anxiety, and affect a child’s confidence and self-esteem.

● Unwanted pictures online could affect educational and job opportunities later in life.

● Sharing images, particularly sexualised images, can increase the likelihood of a child receiving inappropriate sexual contact from strangers online.

What can you do to reduce the risks?

Talk to them

If your child is sharing images it’s a good idea to discuss the type of things that you think are ok to share and things which you wouldn’t want them to share.

If your child is too young to fully understand the consequences of sharing pictures and videos online it's important they know to check with you before posting anything online. 

If you or your child are worried about a photo or video that they have already shared, sent or posted online, talk to them. Make sure they know that you are not angry and do not blame them. Ask them to explain what has happened, and tell them you will make a plan together to put things right.

Stop the image spreading online

If you’re worried about an image your child has shared online, it is a good idea to help them remove it from any sites it’s been shared on. There are a number of different steps you can take:

  1. The quickest way to get content removed from the internet is for the person who posted it to take it down. If your child posted the image using their account on a social media site, ask them to log in and delete it.

  2. If someone else posted the image or re-posted it, ask them to delete it from any sites they've shared it on - your child's school may be able to help identify them.

  3. If you don't know who has posted it, or they refuse to take it down, then report the image to any sites it's been posted on. All major social media sites have ways to report content. It's not guaranteed that they will take it down but if it breaks their terms and conditions or 'community guidelines' it should be removed.

You should act especially quickly to remove images containing the following:

● Nudity or suggestive poses.

● Details which might identify a child – for example, a school uniform.

● Details which might identify or embarrass other children.

You might also encourage your children to wait until they are older before they start sharing on social media. You should be thirteen years old to get an account on most social networking sites.

Worried about sexualised or revealing pictures?

If the photo or video contained sexualised poses or nudity, you should find out why. Talk to your child to understand the context in which the image was created.

After listening to what they tell you, you may decide that the picture was intended as an innocent joke, or that your child was mimicking something they have seen without understanding the sexual implications.

In this case, talk to your child about being careful about sharing images online in future. You should also act quickly to have an image removed from any sites it's been posted on by reporting to them. Sexual images of people under 18 are illegal so sites are obliged to take them down quickly. 

You should take further action if you believe that someone asked or pressured your child to share a sexual photo or video, to go on webcam, or if you feel your child is demonstrating sexualised behaviour inappropriate for their age.

  • If you believe your child is being groomed or is at risk of sexual abuse you should report to CEOP.
  • If you are worried about inappropriate sexual behaviour and after talking to your child are still unsure why they are behaving in this way, discuss your concerns with your child’s teacher or the person in charge of safeguarding at their school. You could also speak to someone on the NSPCC Helpline.